Do idealizes. This is rule number one conjugal happiness. You have to know and appreciate the small Beatitudes every day and not the next download to your frustacionet, it is better to think for themselves and have a personal interest
Who is the master of slippers watching TV? It is the man with the cycle you married? Sighs, thinking of times before. Think that would have been otherwise. A perfect wedding and he romantic, more confident, more attentive to the house and children. Today, by contrast, remain only dreams of your dissatisfaction and a sense of not forsake them. Maybe your marriage is not like in the fairy tale, but it is a good marriage and a lot can still regulated. Read here and you will understand because ...
Blue Prince did not always exist
It belongs to the blue prince, he escapes, get married and live together happy and cheerful. Begin to idealize love when we are small and when we fill our room teenage photos divave the cinema, the most beautiful love each school and fill journal of poetry and shigjetuara heart. This large waterfall illusions for us to separate ourselves from childhood idols, from parents, and allows us to accelerate the heartbeat of our new e wonderful dream of the future: a new family. But it can make us lose the sense of reality. It's true: Your husband is not Superman, too uncertain to succeed, too lazy and all that confused and forgets your anniversary. But he has other qualities, is what you did to love ...
Even other men have any defect
You are fully confident that your girlfriend marriage is better than yours? Surprise! And she feels the same for you. It's true, you see two pigeons look like, but who knows, that when alone ... Ultimately, every wedding is different. Now a couple problems differ from traditional ones, which remain separate roles well. Likewise, as second marriages that are different from the first and loves to come after not quite resemble those born in school.
We need to be less selfish and to hear more
Do you know who are best friends? What is the thing that embarrass us more? Do you really understand why he tortures so many problems? The only way to avoid being caught after two years as foreign is not to think that you know everything about the other. Sounds easy, yet ... Within each of us is always that "devil" terrible proving to separate us from the person who loves us. Our part is childish, it will always be the center of attention and can not endure to have something more important than "I love you", "I said," "I did." Really listen instead of another begins with a simple question: "how are you?" Within what "you" all the power of love is the only key that opens the cage of selfishness.
Sometimes it's easier to complain
Do not love me as before. He is always tired, and with reluctance to complain to his silences and can not endure without throwing a dart at times. Maybe the problem is not as bad as you think, but you have two ways to solve: open talk with your husband. Because out of the skin and contentious unhappy wife must win over fear of the truth, such as that of a betrayal. Yet, although it may hurt us, the truth is the only way to escape the fate of a love. After numerous disputes and as stories, in the end are even closer. But also know that everything is over, is always better than to continue to lie to themselves. Or prefers to complain about life?
At first discussed, then the agreement is
It is better evidence, but even more dangerous in a couple's life: many decisions to be taken in two. If you disagree, can be discussed before and fought, but later it remains us not only to find agreement and one must always yield.
Enough with the criticism ...
"You're always the same! The expected". "I thought you were different, on the contrary ...". Here phrases that must not be said. Offend other and limit potential problems. The perception of partner behavior is often threatened by our prejudices, rather than by objectivity. The classic example is this: it is disappointed by her life and prefers to vetëbindet he loves me not. He, instead, be more, but it requires any way to prove that what he feels is true. So, if he comes home tired, doubts had çejf somewhere. And if you bring a gift, thinking it would apologize. If this is your case, stop and think. Since not expecting a kiss?
To stay away from the nearest recaptured
Absolute League is an impossible dream. The greater our need to be stagnant, the more risk to kill another and become aggressive and intolerant partner. For those who always discuss everything, but do not ever fall. Or those who love me s'bëjnë before, but to see the Siamese twins look like. Yet, it is enough to invite some friends for dinner or for a weekend split in different countries, to recover the right distance.
Earlier learn to please themselves
You wanted a man engaged, but now complain that little sit at home? Maybe I should begin again to look on the passions of the past. Try to raise self-esteem. When you happy with yourself, do not exaggerate the expectations of others and love is nothing but the desire succulent fruit. Rather, the appropriate sterile tree grow arrows "when you turn" and "let me", those that transform us into the boring friend nuisance. / Telegraph /
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